How to give kids joy about their bodies in a judgemental world of jerks
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What if our kids saw all bodies as good bodies?
Are we raising our kids to understand that there’s more than one way to move, eat, and take up space?
Find everything you need to raise kids who appreciate all kinds of bodies
Is your kiddo noticing how their bodies are different than others? Are they starting to feel self-conscious, judgemental, or even ashamed of some bodies?
How can we prevent them from becoming judgemental jerks who ascribe morality to the shapes of our thighs and the ways our bodies move?
Let’s help our kids reclaim pride in their bodies and address questions about skin color, body size, disability, hair, and other visible differences - before they say something loud and hurtful in public.
How to respond when your kid makes an insensitive remark
for grownups
Nobody expects you to keep your kid gagged. All kids (and adults) say insensitive things even when we do our best to learn and grow.
After requests for support, I made this script for members of the Luminary Braintrust on how to respond when your kid says something cringe about a visible difference in public.

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Coming up next…
I’ve been *resting* to practice what I preach in the Winter Incubator through January and February. Still, next week, I’ll be back with some new changes for the Luminary Braintrust in this upcoming year of the snake.
As we close out the year of the dragon and welcome in the new year, I’m grateful for all you benevolent incendiaries, where we can look forward to another twelve months of kyriarchy-smashing mischief.
Meanwhile - everyone give a big cheer for Erin H., our newest supporter here on Substack, along with the 24 other amazing do-gooders who help me keep these resources free and accessible for families who need them <3
with you,
Ashia